Introduction
You have been introduced to that fun girl or that adventurous boy. A week goes by... and they stare blankly as you walk up to say hello. Or you knew someone for a while, years go by, and they come up to your sister to say hi, whom they met just a few times, as you idly stand by. The thing is, you have been more around that person than your sister ever was... It is time to say goodbye to that Wallflower Syndrome!
Things You'll Need
- Open mind
Steps
1 Step One
Smile, smile and smile. Leave your problems at the door, as they say.
2 Step Two
Always show your best side. Leave your moods for your intimate friends.
3 Step Three
Let yourself stand out and lose that unhealthy fear of stealing the show. That means, yes, wear bright colors! Wear some makeup! Let yourself make a joke-even if it flops, who cares? People will remember you as fun and fearless.
4 Step Four
Read up on topics that interest you. Show passion when you talk.
5 Step Five
Pursue a hobby or a volunteering position. Meaning, give your personality some flair! Widen your horizons!
6 Step Six
Don't be afraid to laugh even if no one else thinks the joke is funny. People are attracted to laughter.
7 Step Seven
Be kind. This is very important. Everyone enjoys being around kind people.
8 Step Eight
Don't take yourself too seriously. Have fun being unique. Don't apologize for being who you are-be confident!
9 Step Nine
There are tons of self-help books weighing down the shelves and lots of advice to go around, but the most important advice is-be yourself, just dust off the best of what you've got and let it shine! Become comfortable with that shine, with yourself.
10 Step Ten
As you practice those steps you will realize that there is so much more to you than you have previously thought. Celebrate that! And ... watch them remember you.
Overall Tips & Warnings
- Being unique is key. Let yourself be special, not like everyone else.
- Make sure you do not over react. Don't force anything.
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